Hi, I’m Angie Enger.
INFJ, 2w3, Cancer Sun/Virgo Moon/Taurus Rising
Angie Enger, MA, is a compassionate and insightful Sex and Self-Intimacy Coach dedicated to helping women and femmes redefine their identities and reclaim their pleasure. She guides individuals to confidently explore their desires, navigate complex emotions, and forge deeper connections with themselves and their partners. Clients praise her ability to create a shame-free space for exploration, providing practical tools and profound insights that lead to greater fulfillment and empowered self-expression.
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Angie graduated with a Masters of Arts in Community Counseling in 2009 from the University of Minnesota. She completed an independent study with Dr. Eli Coleman at the Eli Coleman Institute for Sexual and Gender Health (Formerly the Center for Human Sexuality) and a Practicum at the The Gender and Sexuality Center for Queer and Trans Life (formerly the GLBTA Programs Office). Angie has additional experience in the sexuality and wellness space as a Sex Educator at the Annex Teen Clinic.
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I am LGBTQ+ and BDSM/kink-positive, sex-worker allied, and affirm ENM/Polyamorous relationship structures.
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In 2023, Angie created Oh What Beauty, a pleasure and intimacy shop focused on curating toys and tools with quality, innovative design and aesthetics in mind, all from women, Queer and BIPOC-owned business. Angie also developed a line of natural silk gentle restraints to encourage pleasure seekers to experiment with bondage and restraint in a way that was inclusive, accessible and decadent.
My Principles
You aren’t broken, I promise.
Start with a little and grow it. Pleasure welcomes more pleasure. Connection welcomes more connection.
Perception is reality. We can’t always change our circumstances but we can change how we think about them.
Podcast Appearances
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Episode 93. Beyond the Talk: Everyday Conversations About Sex, Bodies & Boundaries with Angie Enger
f you grew up in the 80s or 90s, you probably remember “the talk”, one awkward, fluorescent-lit conversation at school or a quick birds-and-bees download from your parents. But as parents today, we know it doesn’t work like that anymore. In this episode of AND/BOTH, I sit down with returning guest Angie Enger, a sex and self-intimacy coach, parent, and former teen clinic sex ed teacher, to talk about what it really looks like to have ongoing conversations with our kids about sex, consent, bodies, and relationships.
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Hot take: there’s nothing wrong with your desire—it just has a flavor, babe. Join Aimee and Angie Enger as they spill the tea on spontaneous vs. responsive desire, why ‘low libido’ is a total myth, and how to turn frustration into exploration. It’s time to stop feeling broken and start owning your unique, sexy blueprint.
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In this episode of 'Good Ideas and Bad Decisions,' hosts Kat and Ellen are joined by Angie Enger, a sex and self-intimacy coach who shares her unique journey to becoming a coach and the importance of reclaiming pleasure in one's life. Angie dives deep into topics of responsive desire, the significance of individual self-intimacy, and practical tips for couples struggling with connection. Kat and Ellen also discuss the lack of cyclical care for women, the power of small pleasures, and creating intentional moments of connection. This insightful conversation is packed with valuable insights and practical advice for anyone looking to improve their intimate relationships and overall well-being.
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Episode 82. Breaking the Silence: Moms, Marriage & Sexual Intimacy with Angie Enger
In this candid and eye-opening conversation, Ashley welcomes Angie Anger, a self intimacy and sex coach, to the And Both Podcast. Angie shares her non-linear journey from counseling and corporate marketing to becoming a coach who helps women and femmes reconnect with their bodies, pleasure, and self-worth—especially through the lens of motherhood and long-term partnership. With empathy, humor, and a refreshing dose of honesty, they discuss desire types, communication barriers, emotional labor, and how parenthood reshapes intimacy. Angie reminds us: you’re not broken, you’re just human.
Organizations I support with my time, resources, and/or money.
My Coaching Approach
I offer empathic and personalized coaching to individuals seeking transformation. My unique coaching framework guides you to achieve what truly matters to you. My mindset-driven, systems-approach provides you with tools and resources that set you up to adapt to whatever circumstances come your way.
