Reclaim Your Desire & Reconnect with Your Body.
A shame-free space for women and femmes to navigate midlife libido, body comfort, and sexual reclamation
Midlife & Perimenopause Support
LGBTQ+ & Kink-Affirming Coaching
Trauma-Informed Body Connection
I help women and femmes move from burnout and disconnection to a life of embodied pleasure and sexual freedom. Whether you're navigating midlife shifts or unlearning sexual shame, your journey to self-intimacy starts here.
You aren’t broken. You’re just out of practice.
Somewhere between the "shoulds" of society and the demands of daily life, it’s easy to lose the map to your own pleasure.
Does intimacy feel like just another item on an endless to-do list? When your brain is busy managing everyone else’s needs, there is very little room left for your own desire.
The Mental Load
Whether it’s the transition of midlife, the shifts of perimenopause, or simply feeling like a stranger in your own skin, we help you navigate the gap between how you used to feel and who you are now.
The Body Shift
We are taught to prioritize everyone else's comfort over our own satisfaction. Unlearning that "self-sacrifice" is the first step toward a pleasure-informed life.
The Silent Shame
Your pleasure is a nervous system event.
To truly reconnect, we have to look at the whole picture. Our work is grounded in the Biopsychosocial Model, recognizing that your intimacy is shaped by your biology, your mindset, and the world around you
A Holistic Path to Reconnection
Angie’s approach combines clinical wisdom with embodied practice to help you build a sustainable relationship with your own desire.
We start by identifying the "Mental Load" and the societal scripts that keep you disconnected. Through self-intimacy coaching, you’ll learn to recognize your unique desire triggers and quiet the inner critic that says your needs don't matter.
Cultivating Your
Inner World
We work to bridge the gap between your mind and your body. Whether you’re navigating the physiological shifts of perimenopause or unlearning body shame, we focus on nervous system regulation to help you feel safe, present, and "at home" in your physical self.
Coming Home to Your Skin
Expanding the Spark
Pleasure is a skill that can be practiced. We explore new ways to welcome play, curiosity, and erotic interest back into your life—on your own terms. This isn't about "performance"; it’s about discovering what actually feels good to you.
Why this works
By addressing the Biological, Psychological, and Social factors together, we create a shift that lasts longer than a quick fix. We aren't just solving a problem; we are building a lifestyle of pleasure.
Guided by Wisdom, Rooted in Experience
I’m Angie Enger—a coach for women who are ready to stop performing and start feeling.
I help women and femmes who spend their lives caring for others finally turn that nourishment inward. My work is built on the belief that self-intimacy is the foundation for every other connection in your life.
As a coach with a background in Community Counseling (MA), I don't just offer "tips"—I provide a trauma-informed, shame-free environment where we look at the biological, psychological, and social layers of your desire. Whether we are navigating the shifts of midlife or the complexities of sexual reclamation, I am here to help you find your way back to yourself.
Stories of Reclamation
What happens when you finally decide that your pleasure matters.
"I thought I needed help to improve intimacy in my relationship and we discovered right away that the actual work revolved around my relationship with pleasure and confidence in general... her help has fundamentally changed the way I approach my life."
-Liz T
"I was very appreciative of how careful she was with my shame. Once we found a safe place to land, she equipped me with a simple yet effective tool to reconnect with my body. She understands very well what a delicate system our sexuality is."
-Amy N
"As someone who has done a lot of self-work and therapy, my session with Angie helped fill in gaps I didn't even know existed. She made me feel understood and gave wonderful direction I have taken deeply to heart."
-Kate S
Choose Your Journey
Whether you are looking for deep 1:1 support or the energy of a group, there is a space for you here.
Deep Reclamation
A high-touch, personalized experience for those ready to dive deep into their specific goals. We’ll work through your unique blocks to create a sustainable lifestyle of pleasure.
Collective Healing
Join a community of like-minded women and femmes. From "Feel Your Self" workshops to specialized intimacy events, find healing through shared experience and play.
Self-Paced Discovery
Not ready for coaching? Explore my collection of shame-free guides, blog posts, and tools designed to help you start your journey at your own pace.
You’ve waited long enough to feel good.
Your pleasure isn't a luxury—it’s a vital part of your well-being. Let's find your spark together.