You aren't broken.
You're just out of touch.
Somewhere between the demands of daily life and everyone else's needs, most women lose the thread back to themselves. Not because something is wrong with them. Because nobody taught them how to hold onto it in the first place.
This is where we start.
This is for you if...
You've been caring for everyone else so long you've forgotten what you actually like.
Desire feels like something that used to belong to you.
You're somewhere in the middle of a shift — postpartum, perimenopause, a relationship change, a quiet identity question — and you don't quite recognize yourself yet.
You're queer, ENM, kink-curious, or just trying to understand your own edges in a space that won't make that weird.
You're not in crisis. You're just ready to stop putting yourself last.
What this work actually does.
First, we get quiet. Before anything else, we figure out who you actually are underneath all the noise — your values, your body, your instincts. The part of you that knows things before your brain talks you out of it.
Then we build the container. The goal here isn't to feel less. It's to be able to hold more. Both things can be true — the exhaustion and the wanting, the grief and the curiosity. A self big enough to contain all of it at once.
Then we follow what feels good. No urgency, no performance, no finish line. Small change is big change. Pleasure stops being a goal you're chasing and starts being something you live inside of. You will never run out of it.
Hi, I'm Angie.
I'm a sex and self-intimacy coach based in Maplewood, NJ. I have an MA in Counseling from the University of Minnesota and spent 15 years doing marketing for brands I loved before I realized I'd been coaching people all along.
I work with women and femmes in midlife who are done waiting for life to calm down first. My clients are smart, self-aware, and have usually already done the therapy and read all the books. What they haven't done is come home to their own bodies yet. That's the part we do together.
I am LGBTQ+ affirming, kink-aware, and ENM-positive. Whoever you are and however you love, you belong here.
What happens when women do this work.
"I thought I needed help to improve intimacy in my relationship and we discovered right away that the actual work revolved around my relationship with pleasure and confidence in general. Her help has fundamentally changed the way I approach my life." — Liz T.
"I was very appreciative of how careful she was with my shame. Once we found a safe place to land, she equipped me with a simple yet effective tool to reconnect with my body. She understands very well what a delicate system our sexuality is." — Amy N.
"As someone who has done a lot of self-work and therapy, my session with Angie helped fill in gaps I didn't even know existed. She made me feel understood and gave wonderful direction I have taken deeply to heart." — Kate S.
Other Ways to Work Together.
Social Gatherings
I delight in offering in-person and online social gatherings focused on self-intimacy, building community or creating your own bespoke Girls Night.
(In-person events currently limited to Northern NJ/NYC)
The Garden Club
A seasonal small-group experience for women ready to do the quiet work of self-connection together. Offered a limited number of times per year.
Welcoming Pleasure Workshop
A self-paced introduction to the foundational work. Four lessons, a workbook, and guided emails from me along the way. A lot of my coaching clients started here first.
You’ve waited long enough to feel good.
The first call is free, private, and completely without pressure. If I'm not the right fit, I'll tell you honestly and point you somewhere better.