Come home to yourself, and everything else gets better.
Intimacy and Pleasure Coaching for Women in Midlife
MA in Counseling | Certified Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach | Maplewood, New Jersey | Virtual sessions available nationwide
Midlife & Perimenopause Support
LGBTQ+, Kink & ENM Affirming
Intimacy and Pleasure Coaching for Women
I'm Angie Enger, an intimacy and pleasure coach based in Maplewood, New Jersey. I specialize in working with women in midlife, postpartum, and perimenopause who feel disconnected from their desire, their bodies, or themselves. Sessions happen virtually, so you can work with me from anywhere.
This is for you if...
You've been caring for everyone else so long you've forgotten what you actually like.
Desire feels like something that used to belong to you.
You're somewhere in the middle of a shift — postpartum, perimenopause, a relationship change, a quiet identity question — and you don't quite recognize yourself yet.
You're queer, ENM, kink-curious, or just trying to understand your own edges in a space that won't make that weird.
You're not in crisis. You're just ready to stop putting yourself last.
Hi, I'm Angie.
I'm an intimacy and pleasure coach based in Maplewood, New Jersey. I have an MA in Counseling from the University of Minnesota and spent 15 years doing marketing for brands I loved before I realized I'd been coaching people all along.
I work with women and femmes in midlife who are done waiting for life to calm down first. My clients are smart, self-aware, and have usually already done the therapy and read all the books. What they haven't done is come home to their own bodies yet. That's the part we do together.
I am LGBTQ+ affirming, kink-aware, and ENM-positive. Whoever you are and however you love, you belong here.
What happens when women do this work.
"I thought I needed help to improve intimacy in my relationship and we discovered right away that the actual work revolved around my relationship with pleasure and confidence in general. Her help has fundamentally changed the way I approach my life." — Liz T.
"I was very appreciative of how careful she was with my shame. Once we found a safe place to land, she equipped me with a simple yet effective tool to reconnect with my body. She understands very well what a delicate system our sexuality is." — Amy N.
"As someone who has done a lot of self-work and therapy, my session with Angie helped fill in gaps I didn't even know existed. She made me feel understood and gave wonderful direction I have taken deeply to heart." — Kate S.
Other Ways to Work Together
DIY
Worksheets, prompts, and printables you can work through at your own pace. Self-directed self-intimacy work, easy peasy when the mood strikes.
Welcoming Pleasure Workshop
A self-paced introduction to the foundational work. Four lessons, a workbook, and guided emails from me along the way. A lot of my coaching clients started here first.
You’ve waited long enough to feel good.
The first call is free, private, and completely without pressure. If I'm not the right fit, I'll tell you honestly and point you somewhere better.